Dealing with Abusive Family Members


Familiar Troubles



 It is rather frustrating when family doesn't live up to expectations. My brother-in-law, has a rare genetic disorder, and absolutely atrocious behavioral issues. Despite his claims to be Christian, he often uses religious profanity online, claims to have multiple girlfriends, and says sexual comments to strangers on legitimate social media sites, such as Twitter. Additionally, he  has a bad habit of making up fake profiles for people he has known throughout various stages of his life.


His behavior went to such a moral none state that I recently had to contact the police and FBI about his actions. Honestly, he is an embarrassment to people with disorders. It makes it hard to view people such as him as nothing but evil. Sometimes, I debate the morality of eugenics when I think of him. Should we euthanize people such as him when they are born? Maybe. At least then he wouldn't be able to claim that he is married to my deceased best friend who has been dead for over 12 years. Yes, that is how corrupt his behavior is. It's not uncommon for him to use abusive language and religious profanity directed at famous people and even US Presidents. Sound like insanity yet?


What can I Really do?


Perhaps the thing that makes it the worst is that he is claiming to be Christian. Get this, he also said he is the "King Of Nightmares" and an Outlaw on the same profile he claimed to be Christian. Utterly bizarre, right? His norm has always been declaring himself the king of several things. Perhaps it is a Roman Emperor reference. It's hard to stomach behavior like this when the person is supposed to be your Brother-In-Law. It makes me want to shut him in a closet and never let him out. 


Is it okay to let people continue to be in society if they act like this? It's not like I can report him to social media, because he has been known to possess 40+ social media accounts at one time, often ones with random names. That means it would be nigh impossible to track them all down and report every single one. Besides, it is hard to talk to social media sites as they do not even have live people moderating him.  He is so destructive that I want it so he is not allowed to ever communicate with anyone in society. You may view this as unfair, but when someone cannot meet the social expectations of modern society they should lose their right to participate in it. We have certain things we must do, both online and in real life, to not only be lawful but also to avoid offending people. It's not either moral nor legal what he does. It's not about what he believes as a person, but instead the abusive language and the slanderous behaviors of him. Some people should not be in mainstream society, and he is but one of them.


Pray for him


His name is Jonathan Buckner, so you know, who apparently goes by Jacob Wolf at times. Yeah, very nice huh? A ripoff of Twilight. He lives in Muskogee, Oklahoma, and if you ever hear he is nearby it's in your best interest to run faraway from him. The saddest part of all this is the fact that he is mentally disturbed and fails to receive treatment for it. I have always been open about what I go through, and know for a fact that I must actively fight to maintain my sanity and professionalism. None of us are truly perfect beings, and I am but one of countless examples. I wish he understood this, but, honestly, I don't believe he is capable of understanding anything. I'm sure it is not even possible for him to form a rational thought. Pray for him to whatever God you venerate, as he is a rather broken and lost being.

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