Rebuilding

Rebuilding

Sometimes in life we have to start over again. Whether it is a broken relationship or going somewhere new to live, we are sometimes forced in life to start over again. The emotional pain in the rebuilding phase is intense. It took me several years in life to find my place and I cannot begin to tell you how hard it is try and stand up again. When we fall, we fall hard, and there is usually no one to care or help you. When we get knocked down, only a few of us regain our feet. Today I am going to share a few scenarios in hopes it will be be enough for you to walk once again.


Most people think life is over when we have to start over again. Men and women are ultimately humbled by the experience, and some flat out lose all hope. We cannot lose our hope, as hope is the one thing that never can be defeated. I know it is hard, and hell I know it can be scary, but you need to realize you have a great smile and are too good to let anything break your stride. Who cares if you fall down, who knows? It just might mean you’ve been given a second chance. You should find a place to clear your mind and find out what’s really important to you. Find new friends, a new family, a new job or just a new life altogether. Life isn’t over, as life is nothing more than a constantly changing existence where we are sometimes forced to live in many ways until we find our true form. Imagine your true form being a beautiful butterfly, astonishing and remarkable for everyone to see. You fly through the sky, giving people a glance at the real you. For you to find your final form you must fight, for life is a dance and it’s too rewarding in its blissful states to not pursue. When you start over, start with baby steps, then walk and soar towards your dream. My vision is not everyone’s vision, just as is yours. Find your greatest wish and start building a tower to reach there, high in the sky.


Never believe life is over. We have been given a precious time period and I believe we have been given the time to be happy and celebrate in our victories. When we rebuild our lives, it takes us off the main road and we are forced to take a detour on the highway that is life. We must take time to rebuild slowly, and when we are ready to let new people in your life I ask that you be cautious. Often we are lonely or even just flat out stir crazy when we rebuild. We don’t want to let people take advantage of our kind nature. Yet, search for other souls who share experiences not unlike your own. Greet them with open arms, and be honest. Tell them you’ve been hurt before and ask that they treat you gently. If they can’t do that then they probably aren’t worth your time. When you meet that person who does as you ask you’ll feel great pleasure and love, knowing fullly that your struggles and misfortune were all worth it.


Conclusion


Let me just say a few quick things. Life often provides one scenario where we have to start over again. At that point when you try to rebuild you can regain what you lost or lose everything. People are often stuck on “All or nothing” behavior. We must think of the long run when we start all over again. Embrace life. Live as if we could lose it all again, as we must remain positive and live life in all its beauty and wonders.