Much has been covered when it comes to risk factors in a person's life, yet life has been said on what would be the opposite of risk factors, or the positive alternative, enabling factors. We will be assuming that the term enabling is positive, allowing the person to live and grow freely, soaring to new heights. With proper allies and environmental atmosphere, we can count on enablement that allows us to perform better than we could before. Being positive is everything, and a positive person needs to surround themselves with positive places and people who will encourage us to become stronger people. I refer to this as enabling. Enablement can be a very constructive thing, and we need to understand that negativity is the enemy and negative factors are not enabling.
Staying focused and positive is everything. Positive people must demand that others remain positive around them so that they don’t “cut” a person down. The simple way to look at it is positive people build a person up, and negative people tear a person down. Most mental duress and stress are environmental, with negativity being the prime cause of all frustration. When changes are made in a person’s life, the changes will always be for better or worse. We must analyze carefully what is holding us back in life. When we actively discover the source of all our negativity and our lack of production, we should eliminate it or find a way to change what is causing us to stumble. With negative people, confrontation in a positive way (intervention) is always the best answer. Never beat around the bush with people who are dragging you down. Intervene and give the person a chance to change their actions. Otherwise, eliminate those who are damaging to your life and your potential. Sometimes parting with those negative people may be hard, but remember that you deserve better.
When people enable you, it feels absolutely great. It is hard to find healthy people to surround yourself with, but remember, when you do find one, never let them go. Good friends and mates are the best thing to hold onto. There are a million negative people in this world but the good ones are harder to find than gold in a river. Keep them close and never let go. When a person is an enabling factor in life, they will challenge you to become better, and that challenge will come from the heart. People who love another person will never hold a person back in life. Love is the strongest emotion. When you love a person, you will challenge them to move forward in life. A person is enabled the most by the greatest emotion, and that is love.
Love is affectionate and forgiving, and it makes us want what is best for others. Enabling factors are always motivated by that one feeling, and that is love.
Enabling environmental factors are easy to acquire. Healthy foods and books are one way to improve the body and mind. Additionally, devices that make life easier definitely enable you. Things that engage your mind is a positive manner are good, but be careful with music. Music can often be mind altering. Surround yourself with objects that educate and sooth, and you have created a great and enabling environment for yourself.
With proper people and a constructive workspace and living quarters, you will reach for the moon and touch the stars. Always be on the hunt for positive people and items, as what you have around you in life makes you who you are. Don’t let people deter you from your inner self. Your dreams are within grasp, as long as you have great support. Also, don’t forget to enable your friends and family too. Positive enabling makes everyone realize their hidden strength that we often never notice ourselves.
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