Living Life Alone: Loneliness Revisited
Hey, I know living life alone is hard. No one wants to live the path of one. No one, not one person, can handle the possibility of being lonely that easily. We are social creatures who have the need to be loved. That’s right: everyone craves love, whether it is familiar, friendly, or romantic love. Without love, we are like a dying flower, deprived of water and the sun.
When we first feel lonely, there are two ways we can go, and those are to gravitate towards finding someone to talk and socialize with or they begin to retreat and feel sorrow. When we are alone, especially when we are not used to the sensation, depression can sit in. We try to escape, clinging to phone calls and televisions to create an illusion of company. However, this is only a cheap imitation to warm, face-to-face interaction. So what do we do when loneliness sets in, and the days become more and more dreary in our mind? Are we suppose to run and go on errands, hoping to find people to talk with, or are we to take to meditation for us to center ourselves and accept our reality? This sounds like an easy question. Of course we would seek a quick fix to our problem. Yet, this isn’t always possible. Many people don’t have that option, because, let’s face it. Not all of us have a hundreds of friends to turn to. When we feel alone we shut down. We cannot escape the true reality of the situation. We are a people, all of us together, who at one time feel alone. You can be surrounded by people and still feel alone.
A Solution: Saving People From Loneliness
We are only alone in our heart. Our mind and body both perceive the sensation of feeling alone but we only feel alone at its core level in our heart. Our heart is precious. We are people who feel with our hearts and not our mind. Having peace in our mind will not free our captive hearts. We will feel free only if our hearts are fulfilled. There are many ways to free your heart, and that is to go out there, be with people, become educated, understand our hearts and ultimately ourselves. We are people who need to be loved and deserve to be loved. I can say I love you, and if you are going through rough times I can tell you how I feel about each and everyone of you. I know you are reading this for a good reason. I love you, and I will never give up on you. I believe in you, and whether I am a writer who helps you or a caring pen, I am always there for you. I am something that has came to make peace. I am tired of people thinking they don't have time for their friends and family, and I consider you my friends, brothers and sisters. You are everything to me. I know you can overcome loneliness.
Conclusion
We do not choose to be lonely. We are people who need interaction and love from one another. To deny someone love is a crime. Why not call your friends and family right now to make sure they are okay and know they are loved? We are always in need of someone who reaches out to us and I hope you can be that for others. We are so much more than just human, for we are vivid and full of life and emotion. Go out there and find someone to share your life with today, and let their problems be yours. We, as a collective whole, were meant to be together.
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